http://www.ootpdevelopments.com/boar...rce-trade.html
Click there. You can force a trade, or release him with team xxx Ang pick him back up. Pretty lame you'd stop playing a game over accidentally hitting the wrong button. If you do it more then once as your post says "and if hitting a tiny button right next to another tiny button ruins the game every time, I think I may need to stop playing this one". User error not an error with the game.