Thanks Matt for the suggestions. I did run the tool you linked and it gave a list of the OOTP crashes. I'll post a pic in case it might mean something to someone. Afraid to me all it does is confirm the crashes and when they happened
I did have windows check the memory and that test came back fine.
As far as games and relying on the graphics card, I've only played OOTP, Panzer Corp 2, and Rome Total War 2 for a bit. Only crash has come with OOTP. Of course I do a lot of other things with the computer and no issues during every day use, other than this one.
At least I can still play though a random crash is frustrating. My selective memory "knows" it only happens when I'm winning and I have a guy with a multiple HR game in progress
Thanks again.