Bob, could you start the game and with nothing else running, hit CTRL + ALT + DEL to start the Task Manager? Post here what the "commit charge" says. This is how much RAM is being used out of the available RAM. Let's start there. There are a lot of tweaks I can help you do so, if you're patient, we can get you through this issue.
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